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How a Frustrated 35 Years Old Banker Who Was Insulted By Her Mother… Mocked By Her Friends… and Almost Died in an Abortion Meet her Mr. Right Without Begging or Flirting With Men
11 May 2025 | posted by Admin
You’ve seen them. A lot of them. The players. The hit and run. The emotionally-not-available men.
You meet this guy that looks like Mr. right. He is interested in you. You like him too.
He starts chasing you like a hunter, and you’re like the prize he has been searching to win all his life.
You play the hard-to-get game. Weeks after(maybe months), you started dating.
Next: beautiful moments. Surprise gifts. Romantic dates. Classic dinners.
Like every moment spent with him can’t be easily forgotten.
A month of dating turns to 3 months. And then 2 years.
And when it’s time to put the ring on your fingers… He disappears.
Hi, my name is Tonye Abraham.
My last relationship(which lasted for 7 years) ended in tears, I almost died.
In fact, all men are scum!
I will never forget lying there clothed in blood like a big fool.
Right there in the clinic, in front of my younger ones…
My Mum Called Me a Disgrace to the Ifiok Family…
Simply because the love of my life, Kazem (the supposed father of my aborted child) was nowhere to be found.
And you won’t blame her. I almost lost my life.
After that incident, I vowed to God:
“I will never open my legs for any man until I meet my dream man”
I started attending relationship seminars. I learnt a thing or two, but it wasn’t getting me, serious men.
I read a lot of articles on dating blogs that have huge success reviews and followers,
But the techniques weren’t working for me
…maybe because most of the blogs were run by white guys, so those things don’t work on Nigerian men.
The next year (that is 2017)
My kid sister was getting married. I was so happy that I volunteered to be part of the cooking committee.
Sadly, that decision turned out to be one of the worst I ever made.
Here’s what happened:
On the morning of the wedding… that is… immediately, I entered the kitchen and sat down….
They Laughed At me
Now, these are my friends.
These are ladies that gist with me…
I mean these are people that we plan and go on “girls’ trips” together.
They mocked me simply because they were all lucky with a man in their life.
I didn’t cry… just got angry and left the wedding. I even missed the wedding. I went home and drank into a stupor.
See…
I was frustrated at being single.
I was sick of waiting for my dream man to come.
I was tired of attracting only the kind of men that wants to sleep with me…and will ghost me,
So one day, after watching a Youtube video on How to get Mr. Right in rich environments…
I went to Raddison Blu and sat there like a princess (Of course, I am a pretty princess)…
I did two of the things I learned
And guess what?
I was snubbed. No man walked up to me.
I sat there like a desperate moron seducing every charming gentleman that came around.
And that day happens to be the worst day of my life.
I was embarrassed.
I felt like the ground should open and swallow me.
I drove home with tears rolling on my cheeks.
I cried all night…
I was alone. I lay there, hugging my pillow.
Feeling a raw wound everywhere in my heart.
Thinking about Ejiro who I met on campus.
Or Abiola from the office who chased me and chased me until I finally agreed to go out with him. We had 5 dates, and then he stopped talking to me.
Or Kazeem who wasted 7 years of my life, and dumped me in an abortion clinic…
So I lay there, staring at the ceiling, with catarrh running down my nose. My pillow was soaked already.
I thought about starting all over again… Nay, that would never happen.
Just then, I remembered about the church seminar our pastor organized a few days ago.
I got the contact of the relationship expert – Tonye Abraham
I called her that night, I couldn’t say anything, I just broke down in tears.
And she asked us to hang out 2 days after.
Sweetheart…
What She Showed Me Changed My Life… and got me “Raymond” in less than 12 weeks.
I will tell you about the secret techniques he showed me…and how I used it to land “Mr Raymond” in a few minutes,
But before then…
Let me tell you who Tonye Abraham is?
Tonye Abraham is a relationship expert… although a chronic introvert (that doesn’t want to be on social media).
She has a secret project that works in getting you any man you want without coming off as a desperate lady. She called it the 24k Attraction System.
She even hosted 2 seminars on it, and all the ladies attended got results…
But she stopped selling it.
Why?
Simply because most of the ladies that attended her seminar were runs-girls…
And she doesn’t want these powerful seductive secrets in their hands….
Back to…
How These Secret Techniques Helped me in Landing my Sweet Man
After studying his special seductive technique, I took action after 5 days.
Of course, I was very skeptical…
So I procrastinated putting it to work.
But with his constant check-up, I just had to do it anyway.
First, I used the “30-seconds rule” I’d learned…
It wasn’t anything hard. Just a few things to say and how to act in your first meeting with a guy…
And…
1 week after, I got 2 rich men begging to marry me.
Now, these guys are not anywhere near players. They are serious men, ready to settle down.
And the shocking part is they literally worship me.
Before they even started begging to marry me,
there’s this technique I used: “The mostly neglected techniques of making him choose you over other women”
I thought that sounded like a stretch, but…
Baby girl, it works like black magic. I was shocked.
Now, I wasn’t sure if all this was real… however, to be safe, I double-dated so I don’t hurt myself again. (Truth is I regretted it)
The day my husband(lover then) caught me, he was so angry that he almost beat the hell out of the other guy (who happens to be his former colleague)
He forgave me and engaged me that week.
Everything was like a dream.
I couldn’t keep to myself the excitement… so I told a friend of mine “Salawat” everything (that one has been doing feminist feminist… now she’s 39)
She didn’t believe it at first.
So we bet. She tried just 1 of the techniques in the guide and 8 weeks later, she found her dream man.
As we speak, they(Salawat and her husband) just returned from a Dubai Christmas trip last December.
Then,
There’s this lady — Kemi (age of 27) I met in Arise Women Conference in 2019.
She had had a terrible relationship experience. Her last relationship was with an idiot man that left her and wedded his wife 2 days after.
Kemi is 27, but looks 35. I gave her this guide, and she got married last year(2020), just before the lockdown.
That’s not all…
The shocking part came in late last year:
When a very churchy-shy woman. A friend of my mother came around.
At first, I was reluctant to give her this guide simply because she is a single mother…
Plus she is slightly above 40.
But my mother (being the women leader in their church) forced me to give her…
I did. And her story blew my mind.
A 43 Years Old Woman with a Daughter (of 12 years) got Married to a B-Level Executive in Abuja in just 5 months
An old woman…sorry a lady, with no sense of fashion. No swag. No class. No quality hairdo. Someone that can’t even wear lipstick…
Yet, she used the techniques inside this guide to get men chasing her.
Now, after this recent story.
My mother insisted we make it available to all women in Nigeria…so we contacted Tonye Abraham
But she refused to make it public.
His reason remains the same. He is afraid of what runs girl will do with these secrets.
And then, one of our meetings with Albert, my mum said:
“Albert, you always say your mission is to help women become happy… to help them build their dream home…
Daughter, this is how you do it”
After much talk…
She finally said yes.
She agreed to make 50 copies available.
What that simply means is if you’re reading this (right now)…
It means you can be part of the 50 ladies across Nigeria that will access these secrets
…to making men worship you
…to making men beg to marry you
….and to make men do your bidding.
But only if you promise right now…
You’ll take everything in this guide and act upon them.
If you can do that, then this is going to be the best message you ever read this year. I guarantee that.
The Game Bible
How to Get Any Babe to Gree Without Balling, Begging, or Becoming a Mumu
Just to show you how effective this is, here’s one of the many messages I got after a guy used just one trick I teach inside the Game Bible:
“Wisdom, I swear you finish work. I used that same bakery line and she laughed, gave me her number, and even called me that night. Omo! You too much.”
And that’s just one guy.
So if you’re tired of being the one who always waits… while someone else smashes the babe you like…
Now’s your time.
Let me show you some guys doings with the Game Bible…
Feedbacks from Guys Like You…
Things You’ll Learn Inside “The Game Bible”
The real reason babes act like they’re not interested (it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with how you approached her) — Pg. 7
7 hidden things you’re doing right now that make girls reject you. Fix even 3 and watch how fast they start responding — Pg. 14
The 4 mindset rewires that can turn any “regular guy” into a magnet for pretty girls (even if you’ve never had game) — Pg. 27
Why you suddenly go blank when talking to a fine girl? And the weird trick to always know what to say next — Pg. 31
The 3 secret games fine girls play to test men. And how to flip each one to your advantage and make her want you more — Pg. 35
One thing you MUST do before telling any girl you like her… Skip this and you’ll be hearing “I’m not ready for a relationship” forever — Pg. 41
The 6-step seduction shortcut that can make her drop her guard and open up to you… emotionally and physically in less than 30 days — Pg. 42
2 lowkey traits you can add to your personality that make girls chase you like you’re their crush even if you’re shy — Pg. 44
How to make a girl want you Even if she has a boyfriend (this one is so slick it feels illegal) — Pg. 44–46
The first move to make if you want to upgrade from “just friends” to “lovers” (yes, even if you’ve been in the friend zone for months) — Pg. 56
The deadly mistake almost every guy makes that kills all sexual chances with a girl, and how to avoid it forever — Pg. 87
How to turn a short girl-toasting moment into a 10-minute convo that ends with her number and a smile — Pg. 92
One sentence that makes a girl see you as more attractive than any of her current guys, even if you’re not rich, buff, or tall — Pg. 102
Plus, a Community where we discuss and support each other… which also comes with free courses on online business updates
So How Much is The Game Bible?
Let’s not lie to ourselves…
How much have you spent to impress a girl who later didn’t end up banging you?
Let’s not even talk about the balling and dates you go to…
Most guys spend a lot chasing women who don’t rate them.
But I’m not here to tax you.
Even though the full price for The Game Bible is ₦10,000.
You’re NOT going to pay that because this is a re-launch…
Instead, you’re getting it today for just:
₦5,000 only
N10,000
That’s a massive 50% discount.
Remember, this is ONLY available for 28 guys. And after the first 28 guys, you won’t be able to get it again!
Click the red button, it’s going to take you to a payment page where you make a transfer of N5,000, and you’ll get access to everything
My guy, this is the exact Game Bible many guys (especially Lekki big boys) have been using to attract, keep, and fuck the finest girls around without spending money, simping, or begging for their attention.
It’s so simple and savage…
That Yoruba demons (gigolo) even used it on rich married women, getting 4 out of every 5 of them to chase us, pay us, and do whatever we wanted, whenever we wanted.
And if you’re still here, you’re probably done with chasing women who don’t even rate you.
And you want to master how to:
– Have your way with any girl you want.
– Chain their mind, body, and soul to you and you alone.
– Manipulate them as much as you want.
– And get them to do and be anything you want.
Listen…
The Game Bible was created for sharp guys like you, men who are tired of chasing and ready to collect without stress.
But don’t delay and let ₦5,000 stand between you and the power to get any babe you want.
Put Your Guys On Game
If you already have babe…
Respect.
But don’t hide update, share this with your guys who are still struggling.
Let them also experience their own doings in 2025.
Final Note:
This ₦5,000 offer is strictly part of our Re-Launch Discount.
After the first 20 slots, it goes back to ₦10,000,…
No second chance.
So why wait till the price goes up or worse, it closes completely?
Thank you.
Wisdom Apollos
Office: 11 Maben terrace, Off Chevron drive, Lekki, Lagos, Nigeria.