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Retired Abuja Gigolo Leaks the 5-Step Seduction Secret That You Can Use To Get Any Babe Without Spending Shishi
11 May 2025 | posted by Admin
In this article, I’m about to reveal something that used to be a closely guarded secret.
A 5 step-sneaky formula that was passed down to me by someone the girls in Wuse and Asokoro used to call:
“That dark-skinned devil with the doings”
A retired Abuja gigolo.
Yes – an actual retired male escort.
He used to sleep with women for money: politicians’s wives, slay queens, even pastors’ daughters.
But after one serious near-death experience, he stopped his escort work.
Listen attentively, you can use this seductive moves to walk up to almost any babe… no matter how fine, how expensive-looking, how full of herself… talk to her for just a few minutes…
…and collect her number without her even realizing you just toasted her.
And yes… in many cases, if you follow it exactly…
You can get her in bed faster than even she expected.
But let me warn you:
This isn’t for everybody.
- If you still think buying a woman a shawarma is “romance”…
- If you still call babes every morning, hoping she’ll like you back…
- If you still ask, “Can I get to know you?” like one lost fish…
Close this page.
But if you’re the guy who’s tired of being ignored or shamed by the babes you actually want…
If you’re tired of seeing another dirty idiot who doesn’t try… smash the girl you were chasing for months…
Then this might just be one of the most powerful articles you’ll read this year.
Now, who am I?
My name is Wisdom Apollos.
I’m the guy behind The Game Bible — the underground playbook for men who are done begging for attention… and ready to start getting women like gravity.
That book has quietly passed through WhatsApp circles, guy group chats, and barbershops where real men whisper the kind of secrets they never post online.
It’s been read in 4 African countries and helped hundreds of men go from ghosted… to girls texting first. And most guys are banging babes of all class at will…
But we’ll come back to the book later.
Because right now, I want to talk about you.
Let’s start with something you already know…
But probably won’t admit:
You’ve seen a fine girl you like…
Face glowing. Body dangerous. Like the babe go well die…
Now, you wanted to talk to her… but something in your chest whispered:
“Omo, leave am. She go disgrace you.”
So you walked past.
And for the rest of that day… maybe even the rest of that week… your mind kept hitting replay like a broken CD:
“If I just said something smooth…”
“Maybe she would’ve smiled…”
“Maybe… just maybe… she go gree.”
Yeah, I know that feeling.
I’ve been there.
But let me tell you something you’ve probably never heard before…
It’s not your fault.
You were never taught this.
Nobody pulled you aside and showed you how to talk to women in a way that makes them open up, smile, lean in… and later, want to climb into your bed with their own hands.
Instead, all you got was bad advice:
“Be yourself.”
“Just go talk to her.”
“If she likes you, she’ll gree.”
Mumu advice.
Bro, let me ask you a real question:
How many babes have you liked this year?
And out of all of them… how many actually liked you back?
No one abi?
Exactly my point.
So here’s what we’re going to do.
We’re going to trash everything they told you into the gutter… and replace it with something better. Something dangerous.
I call it The Game Formula.
It’s not about packaging. It’s not about balling.
And it damn sure isn’t about texting “good morning, beautiful” like a lovesick corper.
It’s about walking into any room, spotting any babe, and making her feel one deep, confusing, irresistible thought:
“This guy… feels different.”
Now, before I give you the first step, I need you to understand one thing:
Women are not hard to get.
They just know how to filter out average guys.
And most guys? They don’t know how to enter the door of her mind.
But once you learn these steps, and I’m about to give you the first 3 for free… you’ll be able to slide through that door so smoothly…
She won’t even realize when she handed you her number, her time, and her full attention.. And her body….
Ready?
Let’s go.
Here are the 5 Steps to Get any Babe to Gree for you, Without Looking Like You’re Toasting Her:
- Approach with a Pattern-Breaking Ice Breaker
- Build Instant Rapport (Like You’re Already Her Guy)
- Drop Subtle Player Triggers in the Conversation
- Say Something That Makes Her Want to Hear from You Again
- Leave Like a Don — With a Signature Line She’ll Replay Later
Step 1: The Ice Breaker That Bypasses Her Firewall
Listen…
Every woman has a firewall.
It’s invisible. It’s emotional.
And it gets activated the moment you say something like:
“Hi. I saw you and I just wanted to say you’re beautiful.”
You know what she hears?
“Here comes another one.”
Another guy. Another mf simp. Another line she’s heard three times already today.
Now, here’s what’s interesting…
That same girl that snubbed you?
She’ll talk to another guy, laugh with him, give him her number, and even check her phone later hoping he texts.
What changed?
Simple.
That guy used a pattern interrupt.
A line so unexpected… so casual… that her firewall didn’t even switch on.
Let me give you a real example:
Sometime in late January, I saw this babe at Cold Stone. Light skin. Nails like claws. Waist snatched to God’s glory.
Every guy around was forming cool. Scared to say hi.
Me? I walked straight to her and said:
“Quick one, I need you to settle something. My guy said girls that order strawberry flavor always serve premium breakfast. You look like you sabi this matter… Is that true?”
She froze. Then laughed.
Then said:
“Please oh, not all of us serve breakfast!”
Boom. We were talking.
No tension. No fear.
No “Can I talk to you for a minute?”
Just vibes.
And before you say:
“But Wisdom, not every babe will laugh at that kind of line…”
Listen carefully.
It’s not about the line.
It’s about disarming her.
Your opener must sound like something a random stranger would say, not a toast.
Because the moment she feels like you’re “toasting” her, she switches into “I must protect my dignity” mode.
But when you give her something random, playful, or even ridiculous?
She responds like a human, not like a beauty queen.
And the moment she starts talking, you’re already halfway in.
Now here’s the part most guys don’t get…
Getting her to talk is just the beginning. To make her gree, to really start controlling the vibe, you need the second move.
Let’s talk about it.
NOTE: I wrote 50 ice breaker scripts you can use to start a conversation with any girl inside my ebook The Game Bible. You can get it here https://ondewari.com.ng/tdfpay/
Step 2: Build Rapport Like You’re Her Long-Lost Guy
If you think girls fall for looks… you’re wrong.
If you think it’s money… you’re half-right.
But if you want to make her FEEL something? Like you’re different? Like she should trust you, talk to you, and even spread her legs for you?
Then you need to learn the ancient magic of rapport.
What is it?
It’s that feeling she gets when she’s around you, and she just relaxes.
She laughs. She talks. She even teases you back.
Now the crazy part?
You can fake that “old friend” connection… even if you just met.
Let me show you how.
So I’m in line at the bakery.
Pretty babe in front of me. Lip gloss popping. AirPods in.
I tap her shoulder and say:
“Abeg, help me judge. I no trust these people today. This bread or that meat pie, which one go pain me less if it disappoints?”
She laughed.
Takes one AirPod out.
“The meat pie dey okay. But if you like soft bread, try that one.”
I smile and go:
“You sabi this thing too much. I fit carry you follow me next time as food adviser.”
She laughs again.
Boom. Instant rapport.
What happened?
I didn’t toast her.
I invited her into a random problem, teased her lightly, and made her laugh.
Now her brain is releasing oxytocin.
That’s the “I feel safe” chemical.
At that point, she doesn’t even realize I’m working her.
And before you know it, we’re flowing.
Tip: The first time she laughs…
That’s when her brain says: “This guy is different.”
And once she sees you that way?
The wall is gone.
Shey you’re feeling me?
Good.
Now let’s get to the one thing that’ll either make her remember you… or forget you faster than MTN eats data.
This next part is why most guys get numbers… and still never hear from the girl again.
Ready?
Let’s hit Step 3.
Step 3: Inject Player Triggers into the Conversation
See ehn…
Most guys talk too much.
Or too plain.
Or too safe.
They want to look nice. Be liked. Come across as “a good guy.”
Guess what?
She has 17 good guys in her DM already.
She doesn’t need another one.
What she’s craving, even if she won’t say it, is a guy that makes her FEEL something…
Unpredictability. Intrigue. Boldness. A little danger.
That’s what the “bad boys” give off… and why they always win.
But you don’t have to be bad.
You just need to sound like you don’t care too much.
Like you’re enjoying her vibe, but you’re not pressed.
Let me show you how.
Here’s a chat with a babe I met at UNILAG Cafeteria in 2021. She was driving Benz. I was driving leggedise lol… (trekking)
She says:
“I don’t really eat out.”
I say:
“Ah. You’re one of those ‘soft life but self-discipline’ babes. Let me guess, your fridge is full of salad and heartbreak.”
She laughs.
I paused. Then say:
“Don’t worry, I won’t judge you… until I see you eating Indomie at 1 am.”
She goes:
“Lmaooo! How did you know??”
And now I’ve done it.
I teased her, branded her, and made her laugh, all in one sentence.
That’s called a Player Trigger.
It’s not about being rude.
It’s not about being perfect.
It’s about owning the moment.
When you talk like that, she starts wondering:
“Who is this guy… and why am I smiling like a fool?”
But listen… that’s just Step 3.
To make this work like mad, you need the final 2 moves:
The exact words to say that make her want to hear from you again, and…
The perfect way to walk away like a Don, while planting a line in her head she’ll replay in her mind all night.
Now here’s the thing…
I didn’t just figure this out randomly.
I broke all of this down… with examples, screenshots, and word-for-word breakdowns, inside my underground ebook:
The Game Bible
How to Get Any Babe to Gree Without Balling, Begging, or Becoming a Mumu
Just to show you how effective this is, here’s one of the many messages I got after a guy used just one trick I teach inside the Game Bible:
“Wisdom, I swear you finish work. I used that same bakery line and she laughed, gave me her number, and even called me that night. Omo! You too much.”
And that’s just one guy.
So if you’re tired of being the one who always waits… while someone else smashes the babe you like…
Now’s your time.
Let me show you some guys doings with the Game Bible…
Feedbacks from Guys Like You…
Things You’ll Learn Inside “The Game Bible”
The real reason babes act like they’re not interested (it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with how you approached her) — Pg. 7
7 hidden things you’re doing right now that make girls reject you. Fix even 3 and watch how fast they start responding — Pg. 14
The 4 mindset rewires that can turn any “regular guy” into a magnet for pretty girls (even if you’ve never had game) — Pg. 27
Why you suddenly go blank when talking to a fine girl? And the weird trick to always know what to say next — Pg. 31
The 3 secret games fine girls play to test men. And how to flip each one to your advantage and make her want you more — Pg. 35
One thing you MUST do before telling any girl you like her… Skip this and you’ll be hearing “I’m not ready for a relationship” forever — Pg. 41
The 6-step seduction shortcut that can make her drop her guard and open up to you… emotionally and physically in less than 30 days — Pg. 42
2 lowkey traits you can add to your personality that make girls chase you like you’re their crush even if you’re shy — Pg. 44
How to make a girl want you Even if she has a boyfriend (this one is so slick it feels illegal) — Pg. 44–46
The first move to make if you want to upgrade from “just friends” to “lovers” (yes, even if you’ve been in the friend zone for months) — Pg. 56
The deadly mistake almost every guy makes that kills all sexual chances with a girl, and how to avoid it forever — Pg. 87
How to turn a short girl-toasting moment into a 10-minute convo that ends with her number and a smile — Pg. 92
One sentence that makes a girl see you as more attractive than any of her current guys, even if you’re not rich, buff, or tall — Pg. 102
Plus, a Community where we discuss and support each other… which also comes with free courses on online business updates
So How Much is The Game Bible?
Let’s not lie to ourselves…
How much have you spent to impress a girl who later didn’t end up banging you?
Let’s not even talk about the balling and dates you go to…
Most guys spend a lot chasing women who don’t rate them.
But I’m not here to tax you.
Even though the full price for The Game Bible is ₦10,000.
You’re NOT going to pay that because this is a re-launch…
Instead, you’re getting it today for just:
₦5,000 only
N10,000
That’s a massive 50% discount.
Remember, this is ONLY available for 28 guys. And after the first 28 guys, you won’t be able to get it again!
Click the red button, it’s going to take you to a payment page where you make a transfer of N5,000, and you’ll get access to everything
My guy, this is the exact Game Bible many guys (especially Lekki big boys) have been using to attract, keep, and fuck the finest girls around without spending money, simping, or begging for their attention.
It’s so simple and savage…
That Yoruba demons (gigolo) even used it on rich married women, getting 4 out of every 5 of them to chase us, pay us, and do whatever we wanted, whenever we wanted.
And if you’re still here, you’re probably done with chasing women who don’t even rate you.
And you want to master how to:
– Have your way with any girl you want.
– Chain their mind, body, and soul to you and you alone.
– Manipulate them as much as you want.
– And get them to do and be anything you want.
Listen…
The Game Bible was created for sharp guys like you, men who are tired of chasing and ready to collect without stress.
But don’t delay and let ₦5,000 stand between you and the power to get any babe you want.
Put Your Guys On Game
If you already have babe…
Respect.
But don’t hide update, share this with your guys who are still struggling.
Let them also experience their own doings in 2025.
Final Note:
This ₦5,000 offer is strictly part of our Re-Launch Discount.
After the first 20 slots, it goes back to ₦10,000,…
No second chance.
So why wait till the price goes up or worse, it closes completely?
Thank you.
Wisdom Apollos
Office: 11 Maben terrace, Off Chevron drive, Lekki, Lagos, Nigeria.